{"id":13,"date":"2018-05-18T20:25:49","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T20:25:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/demo.studiopress.com\/essence\/?p=13"},"modified":"2023-03-30T03:26:13","modified_gmt":"2023-03-30T03:26:13","slug":"exploring-your-fetish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tsrachelbdsm.com\/?p=13","title":{"rendered":"Exploring Your Fetish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Telling your partner about your kink can be terrifying. While there is no shame in any sexual act between two (or more) consenting adults, kinks and fetishes* can still be stigmatized.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">It\u2019s normal to feel scared about revealing your kinks \u2014 whether you\u2019re into role-playing as a doctor and patient, foot fetishes, or gang bangs \u2014 but kinks are often deep-rooted in our sexual needs. Failure to disclose yours with your partner can mean you\u2019re missing out on a lot of fun and pleasure, and may result in cheating, resentment, and\/or breakups due to sexual dissatisfaction. While many of us have sexual fantasies that are fun to masturbate to, without involving our partners, kinks demand attention.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>\u201cThere are people for whom they need to have that fetish involved in their sex play, or they\u2019re not going to enjoy it,\u201d<\/em> says <a href=\"http:\/\/www.drmichaelaaronnyc.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Michael Aaron<\/a>, PhD, an NYC-based sex therapist and author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Modern-Sexuality-Truth-about-Relationships\/dp\/1442253215\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Modern Sexuality<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">You deserve to get what you want sexually without shame. To help you through the nerves that can accompany telling your partner that the sex is great, but you really need bondage (or spanking, or penetration, or role-playing) from time to time to truly feel fulfilled, let Rachel guide you or if a couple, both of you to a more honest approach to your true sexual self.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>*The terms \u201ckink\u201d and \u201cfetish\u201d are often used interchangeably, although technically a \u201cfetish\u201d refers to sexual arousal to an inanimate object, while \u201ckink\u201d is umbrella term for pleasure beyond normative penetrative sex.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Telling your partner about your kink can be terrifying. 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